Connecting Emotion

The Relationship Between Marketing, Hospitality, and the Guest Experience

One thing I've been thinking about recently, especially as we prepare for the next iteration of Beignet Spot, is the relationship between marketing and the actual guest experience.

I think it's relatively easy to create emotion through marketing. With the tools available today, particularly social media, digital advertising, photography, video, and now AI, we have an incredible ability to create content that makes people feel something.

We can create excitement, nostalgia, anticipation, happiness, and a sense of community through a single piece of content. We can tell stories that connect with people, build anticipation around a product, and create an emotional attachment to a brand before someone ever walks through the door.

But I've been thinking about a more important question.

What happens when the customer actually walks through the door?

Because I think the real challenge in marketing isn't necessarily creating emotion. It's ensuring that the emotion we're creating through our marketing is an extension of the emotion people will actually experience when they visit our stores.

The two have to match.

And I think this is where marketing, operations, management, and ultimately leadership become so closely connected.

Marketing Creates the Expectation

When we create a piece of marketing, we're essentially making a promise.

We're telling the consumer what they should expect to feel when they interact with our brand.

If our marketing communicates joy, warmth, hospitality, and community, then those are the emotional expectations we're establishing.

Think about a restaurant advertisement showing a family gathered around a table, laughing, enjoying great food, and creating memories. The food may be the product being advertised, but the emotion is what's being sold.

We're not simply communicating that we make good food. We're communicating that visiting our restaurant is an experience that will make you feel a certain way.

And that's powerful.

But there's also a responsibility that comes with it.

Because when that family finally visits the restaurant, they're going to encounter something much more complex than the advertisement.

They're going to encounter our people, our service, our atmosphere, our product, and all the little interactions that collectively shape how they feel.

If those experiences don't align with the emotion we created through our marketing, there's a disconnect.

We may have successfully convinced someone to visit once, but we've done very little to encourage them to return.

And in the restaurant business, repeat business is where long-term success is built.

The Emotional Experience Is an Operational Responsibility

I think one mistake we can make as operators is separating marketing from operations.

We treat marketing as the department responsible for attracting people and operations as the department responsible for serving them.

And while those responsibilities are different, I think they're ultimately working toward the same outcome.

Marketing communicates the experience. Operations delivers it.

For our company, our corporate purpose is to create joy in community for as many people as possible.

That's something we can communicate beautifully through marketing. We can show smiling guests, beautiful beignets, friends enjoying milkshakes, families spending time together, and all the things that represent joy and community.

But the question becomes: How do we actually create joy in community inside the restaurant?

What does that look like operationally?

How does a cashier create joy?

How does the person preparing the beignets contribute to that emotion?

How does a manager reinforce it?

How do the cleanliness of the restaurant, the music, the presentation of the product, and the speed of service all contribute to that feeling?

These may seem like simple operational questions, but I think they're actually fundamental questions about how we deliver on our brand promise.

Emotion cannot simply be a marketing objective. It has to become an operational standard.

Coaching the Emotion

This is where I think leadership and people development become so important.

If we want our teams to create a particular emotional experience, we have to first define what that experience looks like.

It's not enough to tell someone to provide great hospitality or make guests feel welcome.

Those are good intentions, but they're not necessarily actionable.

We have to translate those intentions into specific behaviors that can be taught, demonstrated, coached, and reinforced.

For instance, if we want our guests to feel welcomed, what behaviors create that feeling?

Perhaps it's acknowledging every guest when they enter the restaurant. Maybe it's making genuine eye contact, smiling, explaining a product with enthusiasm, or remembering a returning customer's favorite order.

If we want to create excitement around our products, then our team members should understand the products well enough to communicate that excitement naturally.

They should know what makes our beignets special. They should understand the story behind the brand. They should have experienced the products themselves and be able to make recommendations with confidence.

And if we want to create a sense of community, then our teams should understand that they're not simply processing transactions. They're building relationships.

Those individual behaviors may seem small, but collectively, they become the experience.

And that experience becomes the brand.

But there's another layer to this.

I don't think we can consistently coach people to create an emotion that they themselves don't experience within the organization.

If we want our guests to feel joy, warmth, and appreciation, we have to consider whether our team members feel those things when they come to work.

Do they feel supported by their managers?

Do they understand the vision?

Do they feel that their work matters?

Are we developing them, recognizing them, and creating an environment where they can genuinely enjoy serving others?

Because I think great hospitality is much easier to deliver when it's an extension of the culture rather than a performance required by management.

The Role of Leadership and Culture

One of my fundamental beliefs about business is that great people, paired with great leadership, create great experiences.

And I think this idea of connecting emotion reinforces that belief.

As leaders, our responsibility is not just to develop systems that produce consistent products. It's also to develop people and cultures that produce consistent experiences.

This requires intentionality.

We have to communicate our vision repeatedly. We have to model the behaviors we expect. We have to coach our teams not only on what they're doing, but why they're doing it.

For example, when we coach an employee to acknowledge a guest quickly, the objective isn't simply to meet a service standard.

The objective is to make that guest feel recognized.

When we coach someone on presenting a product properly, the objective isn't just consistency in appearance.

It's to create anticipation and excitement.

When we coach a manager on how to resolve a guest complaint, the objective isn't simply to correct a mistake.

It's to restore trust and hopefully turn a disappointing moment into one where the guest feels genuinely cared for.

The operational behavior is the mechanism. The emotional outcome is the goal.

I think understanding that distinction changes how we approach training and development.

Instead of simply teaching tasks, we're teaching people how their actions affect other people.

And when employees understand that connection, I think they become much more intentional about how they perform their responsibilities.

Scaling the Experience

As I think about growing Beignet Spot, this becomes even more important.

Creating a great emotional experience in one restaurant is challenging enough. Creating that same experience consistently across 10, 50, or 100 restaurants requires a completely different level of discipline.We can't rely exclusively on the personality of one great manager or the natural hospitality of a few exceptional employees.

We have to create systems that make the experience repeatable.

That means clearly defining our service standards, building training programs around the desired guest experience, developing managers who understand the emotional objectives behind those standards, and measuring whether we're actually delivering what we promise.

And I think it's important to recognize that consistency doesn't mean every interaction has to feel scripted.In fact, I would argue that overly scripted hospitality can sometimes undermine the very emotion we're trying to create.

People can generally recognize when an interaction feels forced.

The objective should be to standardize the principles and behaviors that create great hospitality while allowing the personalities of our people to bring those principles to life.

The greeting may look different depending on who's delivering it, but the guest should consistently feel welcomed.

The conversation may be different, but the guest should consistently feel appreciated.

And the atmosphere may reflect the characteristics of a particular community, but the underlying emotional experience should remain connected to the brand.

That's how I think we begin to scale not just a restaurant concept, but a culture.

Closing the Gap Between the Promise and the Experience

I think there's an additional opportunity here as we think about the increasing influence of AI and technology on marketing.

We're entering a period where creating sophisticated marketing content is becoming easier and less expensive.

The ability to produce beautiful photography, compelling videos, persuasive copy, and personalized messaging is becoming available to almost everyone.

And I think that's going to create an interesting distinction between brands.

If everyone has the ability to create beautiful marketing, then beautiful marketing alone becomes less of a competitive advantage.

The real differentiator becomes the organization's ability to deliver on what the marketing promises.

Can you actually create the experience you're advertising?

Can your people consistently make guests feel what your brand says they should feel?

Can you do it repeatedly, across different locations, with different teams, on busy Saturdays and slow Tuesdays?

That's much more difficult.

And I think that's where the greatest opportunity lies for operators who are intentional about people development, culture, and hospitality.

Technology can help us communicate the promise more effectively. It may even help us train, measure, and improve how we deliver that promise.

But ultimately, the experience still has to be real.

Final Thoughts

As we continue building Beignet Spot, I want us to think about marketing beyond simply creating content that attracts customers.

I want us to think about the emotional expectations we're establishing and whether our organization is equipped to consistently fulfill them.

If we're advertising joy, then joy has to be experienced in our stores.

If we're advertising community, then people have to feel a sense of belonging when they visit.

If we're advertising hospitality, then hospitality has to be reflected in the way we serve, communicate, and care for our guests.

And that responsibility doesn't belong exclusively to marketing or operations.

It belongs to leadership. It belongs to management. And ultimately, it has to become part of the culture of the entire organization.

Because the goal isn't simply to make people feel something when they see our marketing.

The goal is to make them feel that same emotion, or something even greater, when they experience our brand.

Marketing should be a reflection of the experience, not a substitute for it.

And when those two things truly connect, I think that's when a brand begins to create something much more valuable than a transaction.

It begins to create a relationship.

 

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